You're probably going to fail several times in life and with that failure comes destruction or self growth. The great thing is that you have the ability to select whether you lose or win after a failure, but that ability is backed by your know-how to moving past failure.
Have you ever failed?
This is the first question you should ask yourself. If yes, how did you react to it. Did you spend weeks thinking about how messy you were. Thinking about how unfair life is and why you might end up being a failure in everything. Or, did you accept the failure and decided to go retrace the steps you took towards it to discover what caused it?
If you found what caused the problem, did you search for what that failure taught you.
Those are the two paths a person can take after failure. If you always take the first. Don't get scared, you can try changing how you react to failure with these three steps.
Steps to moving past failure
Moving past failure isn't escaping it. It is just a way in which you try all you can to stay productive and venture into other life-building ideas even after being heart broken.
1. Accept the failure
If it's a business failure, accept it and see the advantages it has brought into your life. Running a business is stressing so, if your business fails, rejoice because atleast you don't have to be stressed anymore.
It's all about anything. If it's a love relationship. Maybe you failed in your first attempt to love. Forget about it and concentrate on what makes you happy. For example you won't waste anymore time thinking about that girl and you won't be stressed out trying to look nice to her. It's the same for girls.
2. Keep working
Forget about the pain. Just keep working. The work you are going to do is going to be better than sitting and thinking about your failure.
Keep working and within days or weeks, the failure will be gone for good. In addition to that you would have stayed productive through the hot period.
This is what can kill people running a bunch of businesses at a go. Failure in one business can destroy all the other businesses if you don't learn to keep working with the pain. Look at this, only one business has failed. The others still need you. If you are going to spend days mourning one business, sorry.
You'll wake up when the others are dead.
3. Motivate yourself
Guys are making motivational videos on YouTube. Thousands of them. If your work is not as productive as it used to be, it's because you have lost your drive. Get it back. Read motivating content. Watch videos and jump back into work.
Remember;
No matter how hard you work, there's someone working harder. So, you got to work harder each day.
What to do after moving past failure
Now that you are out of the trap, what do you do.
The only thing you have to do is search for what lesson that failure has taught you. Think deep into what caused it. You may end up facing the same problem in future. The lesson you learnt can tell you whether to jump out of the loop or use a different procedure.
That's it guys. Move past failure in three steps. I hope those three steps are going to help you in your hard times. I'll continue to pump you with great content. Thanks for reading to the end. Light up the comments. I'll be right there to reply.
If you use any other method apart from the above, let us know.
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Emmy Jayson
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